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You, Me, and the Family Tree 
A Family Constellation Podcast

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In You, Me and the Family Tree, I sit down with my teachers Suzi Tucker, and Bertold Ulsamer, along with other experts from the field, to explore life through the lens of Family Constellations. Together, we look at how our ancestors and families shape our lives, and through honest, heartfelt conversations about belonging, we explore what moves beneath the surface of the family field.

Our latest episode:

Episode 24: Freedom and Contribution — Taking Our Place in Life with Suzi Tucker

What does it mean to be free? And once we experience more freedom, what do we do with it? In this conversation, Suzi Tucker and I explore the connection between freedom and contribution through the lens of Family Constellations. We talk about Hellinger’s distinction between freedom from and freedom to—freedom from the constraints of the past, and freedom to turn toward the future and create something new. From there, our conversation moves into contribution. Does contribution need to be visible or significant? Who are we contributing to? And what changes when we think of contribution not as achievement, but as something we offer to life? We also explore belonging, taking our place, the freedom to say no, and what it means to move toward the future without having to replicate the past. As Suzi says in our conversation: “Life will go on without you, but it benefits from your contribution.” What do freedom and contribution mean to you? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments. I hope you enjoy this conversation.

Episode 23: Back to the Foundations The Essentials of Family Constellations

With Suzi Tucker

Episode 22: Our Relationship with Money
With Ingala Robl

Episode 21: Everything Is Alive
— A Conversation on Shamanism
With Shavasti 

Episode 20: Meeting Unexpected Death  A Family Constellation Perspective With Suzi Tucker

Episode 19: Please Just Hold Me
A Conversation on Family Constellations and Healing
With Shavasti

Episode 18: Working with Large Groups Family Constellation Work
With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 17: Adolescence
Standing Behind Our Children as They Grow
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 16: Menopause
A Movement Toward Freedom
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 15: Sitting by the River
On Time and Timing
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 14: Supervision
In Constellation Work
With Bill Mannle

Episode 13: Rituals
In Constellation Work

With Bill Mannle

Episode 12: Evocative Questions
The Art of Question-Asking
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 11: Primary and Secondary Emotions 
Understanding our Feelings
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 10: The Knowing Field
With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 9: When the Facilitator Feels Lonely

With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 8: Professional Success, Money & the Family Tree
With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 7: When Love Carries More Than two People 
With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 6: Meeting Dr. Bertold Ulsamer
With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 5: Home
As a sense of belonging
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 4: Language 
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 3: The Five Elements That Appear in Every Life Story 
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 2: Acknowledge What Is 
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 1: Decision Making 
With Suzi Tucker

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Disclaimer: Family Constellation is a complementary practice and is not intended to replace therapy, counseling, or medical treatment. If you are experiencing mental health challenges, please consult a licensed professional.

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