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You, Me, and the Family Tree 
A Family Constellation Podcast

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In You, Me and the Family Tree, I sit down with my teachers Suzi Tucker, and Bertold Ulsamer, along with other experts from the field, to explore life through the lens of Family Constellations. Together, we look at how our ancestors and families shape our lives, and through honest, heartfelt conversations about belonging, we explore what moves beneath the surface of the family field.​

Our latest episode:

Episode 27: Victimhood: What Happened to Us and What We Carry with Bertold Ulsamer

Once again, I'm thrilled to sit down with Bertold Ulsamer, whose presence always reminds me to drop into my body. This time, we explore victimhood — the difference between being a victim of something that happened to us and living with the feeling of being a victim. What about the things that didn't happen to us? The love, attention, or protection we needed but didn't receive? We talk about anger, blame, responsibility, childhood wounds, and what we may carry from previous generations. Bertold also shares why we shouldn't rush into forgiveness and why remembering the past isn't always necessary to move forward. And we get to experience something special: a spontaneous demonstration of Bertold's work with inner imaging, offering a glimpse into his gentle, curious way of exploring what is present. How can we acknowledge what happened to us while also turning toward life? This episode also marks one year of You, Me & the Family Tree! Thank you for listening and being part of these conversations.

Episode 26: The Ordinary Miraculous
A Systemic View on Pregnancy With Suzi Tucker

Episode 25: The Business of Family Constellations
With Leslie Nipps

Episode 24: Freedom and Contribution
Taking Our Place in Life
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 23: Back to the Foundations The Essentials of Family Constellations

With Suzi Tucker

Episode 22: Our Relationship with Money
With Ingala Robl

Episode 21: Everything Is Alive
— A Conversation on Shamanism
With Shavasti 

Episode 20: Meeting Unexpected Death  A Family Constellation Perspective With Suzi Tucker

Episode 19: Please Just Hold Me
A Conversation on Family Constellations and Healing
With Shavasti

Episode 18: Working with Large Groups Family Constellation Work
With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 17: Adolescence
Standing Behind Our Children as They Grow
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 16: Menopause
A Movement Toward Freedom
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 15: Sitting by the River
On Time and Timing
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 14: Supervision
In Constellation Work
With Bill Mannle

Episode 13: Rituals
In Constellation Work

With Bill Mannle

Episode 12: Evocative Questions
The Art of Question-Asking
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 11: Primary and Secondary Emotions 
Understanding our Feelings
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 10: The Knowing Field
With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 9: When the Facilitator Feels Lonely

With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 8: Professional Success, Money & the Family Tree
With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 7: When Love Carries More Than two People 
With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 6: Meeting Dr. Bertold Ulsamer
With Bertold Ulsamer

Episode 5: Home
As a sense of belonging
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 4: Language 
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 3: The Five Elements That Appear in Every Life Story 
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 2: Acknowledge What Is 
With Suzi Tucker

Episode 1: Decision Making 
With Suzi Tucker

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Disclaimer: Family Constellation is a complementary practice and is not intended to replace therapy, counseling, or medical treatment. If you are experiencing mental health challenges, please consult a licensed professional.

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